K9 PLAY or CANINE PLAY: see PUPPY PLAY. KAJIRA: a term for a female slave, for those who practice Gorean D/s. The letter “K” is seen as a mark of a slave. See related GOREAN D/s and EMBLEM OF KAJIRA. KAJIRUS or SILK SLAVE: a term for a male slave, for those who practice Gorean D/s. The male equivalent of kajira. A male slave to a free female dominant in Gorean D/s. See KAJIRA. KAJIRA SYMBOL: see EMBLEM OF KAJIRA. KAMI: a shibari technique that involves weaving the hair with rope to hold the head immobile. See related SHIBARI and HAIR BONDAGE. KARADA (HISHI KARADA) or ROPE DRESS: a rope harness that is tied around the torso in a series of diamond-shaped patterns. A karada does not restrain the person but creates ideal anchor points for restraining. A part of shibari (Japanese bondage). KENNEL PLAY: puppy play in which a person is confined to a kennel or doghouse or locked out in a backyard. See related ANIMALISM. KEVLAR WHIP: see FIRE WHIP. KEYS TO THE CITY: a slang term for bolt cutters. Bolt cutters are a good device to have on hand for safety when playing with handcuffs, padlocks, chains, or other metal bondage devices. KEYWORD: a less common name for a safeword. See SAFEWORD. KINK: involving or given to unusual sexual behavior. Sexual desires and/or behaviors that exceed conventional sexual practices, as a means of accentuating the intimacy between sexual partners. Kink is sometimes used to describe all BDSM activities, and the BDSM subculture as a whole. See related FETISH and PARAPHILIA. KINKSTER: a person who identifies him/herself as kinky or apart of the BDSM sub-culture scene. It is also a term used for someone who is kinky, yet does not necessarily identify themselves as either dominant, submissive or a switch. KINKY: a person who has kinks, given to unusual sexual behavior. A person who identifies themselves as a part of the BDSM subculture scene. Anyone or anything having an unconventional sexual quality. KITTEN PLAY: a form of animalism in which a person, most often a submissive, takes on the role of a cat. See related ANIMALISM. KINK-FRIENDLY: refers to any person, establishment, or company that is sympathetic to kinky people. For example: when seeking a therapist about BDSM matters, it's best to visit a kink-friendly therapist. KNEE PILLORY or DOGGY STYLE PILLORY: a very low pillory on a short frame designed to restrain a person in the kneeling position. Also refers to a portable pillory device that restrains a person’s wrist near their ankles, typically while the person is on their knees. The terms knee pillory and doggy style pillory also refer to a spreader cuff that has cuffs for both the wrist and the ankles. KNIFE PLAY: any activity or play involving a knife. Usually done for show, or for a psychological effect, sometimes to achieve fear in a submissive. Knife play is also sometimes done for the purpose of cutting the skin or scarring. All knife play is considered edgeplay and is therefore dangerous. People have been charged with a serious crime to include manslaughter, due to accidents that took place during knife play. KNOUT: a type of whip with multiple lashes made of twisted wire and usually knotted to cause extra pain. Sometimes the term knout is used for a cat o' nine tails. KOOSH FLOGGER: also known as the dreaded Koosh flogger, a flogger made with the same type of rubber strings used to make a child's toy manufactured by the Hasbro company called a Koosh ball. The rubber strings in the Koosh flogger are much longer than the Koosh ball toy. The device administers a distinct pinpointed stinging pain, considered more painful than most other floggers. ADVERTISEMENTS: ~ |